Why do some relationships break up and others last a lifetime?

Are you in a new relationship? Or are you in a seasoned relationship with someone you’ve been with for several years?

It doesn’t matter how long your relationship has lasted, because all the relationships will fit snugly in one of these relationship stages.

Find your own relationship stage here, and it’ll definitely help you understand your own love life better.

Stage #1 The infatuation stage. This is the first stage in every relationship. It almost always starts with an intense attraction and an uncontrollable urge to be with each other. Both of you may be intensely sexually attracted to each other, or both of you may just love the cuddles and each other’s company. In this stage, both of you overlook any flaws of each other and only focus on the good sides. [Read: New relationship advice to have a perfect start]

Stage #2 The understanding stage. In this stage, both of you start getting to know each other better. You have long conversations with your partner that stretches late into the night, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you. You talk about each other’s families, exes, likes and dislikes and other innocent secrets, and life seems so beautiful and romantic.

Stage #3 The stage of disturbances. This stage usually forces its way into a happy romance after a few months of blissful courting. Do you remember the first fight or angry disagreement you and your partner had? For the first time ever in the relationship, both of you confront each other over a conflict, even though it’s sorted out quickly. [Read: 10 things to know to fight fair in a relationship]

Stage #4 The opinion maker. In this stage, both of you create opinions about each other. As the months pass by, both of you know what to expect from each other, and you make an assumption about your partner’s commitment towards the relationship.

When these opinions and expectations about your partner differ now and then in real life, it can either leave you ecstatic or depressed.

You don’t expect your man to buy you flowers, but he does. You feel ecstatic. At the same time, you expect him to pick you up from the airport on time. But he arrives an hour later because he forgot all about picking you up. It depresses you.

Stage #5 The moulding stage. You have your own expectations from an ideal partner. And in this stage, both of you try hard to mould each other to fit your own wants in a perfect partner. This stage is a lot about give and take, and both partners constantly try to subtly convince each other to change their behavior towards the relationship. This is a power struggle, and one that can end the relationship if both partners are domineering. [Read: 10 big problems in any relationship and how to fix it]

Stage #6 The happy stage. If the relationship survives past the moulding stage, both of you may have changed equally for each other and understood each other’s expectations. In this stage, the relationship cruises along perfectly and both of you may be blissfully happy with each other.

Almost always, this is the stage when both of you feel like a perfect match. You may even decide to get engaged or get married. This happy stage is also the stage of attachment when both of you truly feel connected to each other and love each other intensely. [Read: How to get him to propose by reading his mind]

Stage #7 The stage of doubts. It’s been several years since both of you have been in a relationship with each other. And somewhere along the way, doubts start to creep in. The intensity of the doubts depend on how happy both of you are in the relationship.

You start to think of your past relationships, your exes, and other prospective partners. You tie your happiness in life with your relationship. If you’re unhappy, you blame it on the relationship.

In this stage, you start comparing your relationship with other couples and other relationships. Would your relationship survive this stage? It definitely could, as long as your relationship isn’t monotonous and repetitive. [Read: How to be a happy couple that’s envied by all other couples]

Stage #8 The sexual exploration or bust stage. This is the stage when your sex life starts to play a pivotal role. Both your sex drives may change or one of you may get disinterested in sex.

In this stage, you either give up on passionate sex or constantly look for ways to make sex more exciting. If sexual interests start differing here, one of you may end up having an affair. But on the other hand, if you find creative ways to make sex more exciting, your relationship could get better and bring both of you a lot closer. [Read: Top 50 kinky ideas for a sexy relationship]

Stage #9 The stage of complete trust. This is the happy stage when both of you love each other and trust each other completely. But at the same time, the unbreakable trust in each other could also turn into taking each other for granted.

In this stage, both of you know the direction of the relationship and both of you are completely happy with each other and find it easy to predict each other’s behavior and decisions. But with stability in love comes the urge to take each other for granted. [Read: How men really fall in love]

As pleasant as this final stage of love may be, it’s still no excuse to take each other lightly or stop appreciating each other, because love is an intense emotion that can be rekindled by anyone else at any time if you fail to express your romance to your lover.

If you’re in a relationship for a while, you may have experienced all or most of these relationship stages. And if you’re still in a young love, don’t let the dark side of these relationship stages scare you.

Red Day!

Time flies so fast. Love is in the air. Happy Valentine’s Day.

Valentine’s Day is the day of love as a general. But it’s not only for couples. Love is for everyone, it’s selfish. Love can expressed in many ways. The day is most closely associated with the mutual exchange of love notes in the form of "valentines.

Valentines Day is a day to express your love, and to celebrate the spirit of love. You will love this absolutely for valentine's day. In some cases, they expressed it through flowers, chocolates and letters. Some expressed it through date, party or out of town vacation.

I celebrated the Valentine’s Day just fine. It wasn’t really very special but I enjoyed it because I’m with my pals.

The Moment of Truth

This is the moment – the moment of truth. Don’t block my way cause I’m gonna push you back. It is the time to say goodbye, leaving my Alma Mater and everything that made my life fruitful and meaningful. For the last time of my high school life, I will show my best in every thing that I will do and don’t waste time for the unnecessary things. The graduation is fast approaching and the seconds, minutes, hours and days that I will be here is getting lesser.



Final grading is coming. Hay,,,, but we have lots of activities and projects to work on. We have hectic schedule and overloaded. I don’t know on how to manage my time. I always bear in mind that after all these very tiring activities and projects will be done properly and I can pass it on time. If other’s Can, Why Can’t I. I will. I will. I will.


But before I leave my beloved school, I would like to thank the people who are always by my side and ready to share their helping hand whenever I’m down. To our principal, teachers, classmates and most especially my friends – thank you so much and I will miss you. Its not the last moment that we will be together.

No Need for Words......

No need for words,it's all been said. As I always been writing or sharing regarding our Computer Subject about the status. I would say that it's becoming nicer and better every topic that we've met. It's getting more exciting and interesting than ever.

Web Page Design - one of the nicest activity that we've encountered. Especially, our team project is all about IPOD NANO. The new version of ipod shuffle that can use videos and storing other medias not only music/MP3 or pictures.

We've been very busy because our first project was on Problems on Technology, we thought that it was bored to present to our classmates that topic of ours. So, we decided a better title which is the ipod nano.

..HTML....

From the passed few weeks, I’ve learned a lot in Computer Education. It’s all about HTML or the Hypertext Mark Up Language, the html tags, text alignment, heading tags, stand alone tags, text formatting, font attributes and a lot more.

I was challenged when having those consecutive hands on and the presence of mind is needed. I was being paranoid of what I am doing.

The problem I’ve encountered was when teachers of ISNHS were having their businesses and using our computer’s work station that we were assigned to do our activities. So, we have to wait for our dear TEACHERS. Because of this I rushed my hands on…………many many activities…………..I was left behind, I thought.

Enough patients in typing the tags because one mistake…mistakes all….

DON'T BLOCK MY WAY!

Goodbye first grading…hello second grading. The first grading period was over. Here comes the next grading – new learnings…

Before our first periodical test in Computer Education, I am not yet ready...hahaha…at first. I don’t know on how to start reviewing my notes. Honestly speaking, I found hardships. The worst thing is we have ten subjects and the question is “what am I going to review first?” I tried all my best to be able to review all my notes. But despite of all these things, I was overwhelmed and very grateful when I got a high score in computer in Computer Education. Past is past as the famous saying goes.

Here comes the second grading period. Our past few days in Computer Education, I’ve learned many things. We’ve learned about Basic html tags, element content, all about html which includes tags, files, html element, html editors, mark up tags, the web pages, web server and others. I was surprised that in tags, if you type the incorrect tags, the outcome will not be the outcome that you expected. You should have enough patience in typing the right tags because one error, error all…..